Is she cheating?

[GWB]

Oh man this one is for U :

There are times when a woman has to say what's on her mind
Even though she knows how much it's gonna hurt
Before I say another word let me tell you, I love you
Let me hold you close and say these words as gently as I can

There's been another man that I've needed and I've loved
But that doesn't mean I love you less
And he knows he can't possess me and he knows he never will
There's just this empty place inside of me that only he can fill

[Chorus:]
Torn between two lovers, feelin' like a fool
Lovin' both of you is breakin' all the rules
Torn between two lovers, feelin' like a fool
Lovin' you both is breakin' all the rules

You mustn't think you've failed me
Just because there's someone else
You were the first real love I ever had
And all the things I ever said
I swear they still are true
For no one else can have the part of me I gave to you

[Chorus]

I couldn't really blame you if you turned and walked away
But with everything I feel inside, I'm asking you to stay

[snoopy]

WU -- you can move on, better now than later

[MQuang]

take care of yourself bro

[CaLiForNian]

Originally Posted by Without_U

Is she cheating on me(or/and on the other guy) or I'm thinking too much?

last week I text-ed her around 12 as a goodnight message, 2 sec later I received a text with cursing words, dirty words. I didn't say anything, didn't bother to call back as I know for sure It wasn't her text-ed me. I was sleepy, I got disappointed, a little upset, tired.... so I went to sleep.

2 days later she called, explained that she was at a party at a friend's house and didn't know who sent out that message, and she's sorry that is happened.

She, today just gave me her new Extra number, and told me to call and text to this new number from now on.

I was thinking... why she needs to have 2 numbers for? is the other guy checking on the other number?

She is dating another guy who is manipulating her; why would a girl give out her personal phone to another? This is a "cheap" move from another guy to get her for himself. My advice to you is to be fair and civil as much as you can, hence if it does not work out for you guys you'll never regret. My phylosophy in courtship is this: "it's fair in love and sex, I mean war". If you like her, and she likes you back, great; otherwise, move on and never look back.

[convitcon]

Originally Posted by BigBear

And get a back up plan

A well plan is not always the best plan.

[BigBear]

Originally Posted by convitcon

A well plan is not always the best plan.

Ironically, you are probably right Vit. Love is way more complicated than math.

[teardrop]

W U,
At least she admitted and gave you a closure so you can move on with your life. Others might be living in denial and thinking you'll never know the truth. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Don't you think? Good luck!